Dear Family,
I´m sorry this letter is arriving late. Because yesterday was a holiday (Día de San Martín I think), all the internet places were closed yesterday and we couldn´t send email.
There are some great things and some tough things happening in Hurlingham. A lot of our investigators have stopped progressing or aren´t progressing very much, and we are having trouble using our time efficiently and therefore aren´t teaching very many lessons or finding many new investigators. I feel sad and frustrated about our investigators because I don´t know how to help them understand how important baptism is. And I´m disappointed with myself for not using my time wisely, because I know it´s one of the most precious resources that Heavenly Father gives us to do missionary work. On Saturday night I was frustrated because I make the same mistakes over and over again-- going to bed late, arriving late to the pension, not speaking to enough people in the street. I realized all of those things would be easier to do if I was more committed to be obedient. So I said a prayer and promised Heavenly Father that from now on complete obedience will be my highest priority. I´m still not perfect, obviously, but feeling more committed to complete obedience over any other priority is helping me to change the things I wanted to fix. It really is easier and less stressful to try to be 100% obedient than to try to be 90% obedient. On Sunday morning I remembered my promise and spoke to 3 people in the train! I NEVER speak to people in the train. I´m hoping that this week if I strive to keep my promise to Heavenly Father that we´ll be able to find new investigators and teach more lessons.
The ray of sunshine here in Hurlingham is our investigator Gastón. He hasn´t used drugs or drank for 2 weeks, and he is working really hard to stop smoking. He has really changed his heart and everyday he reads the Book of Mormon, prays, and tries to do service for his family. He is a miracle and I can´t wait for him to get baptized. It´s really a privilege to be part of his conversion. Every day we try to follow the Spirit to know what to teach him, and we use as many scriptures as we can. Heavenly Father is really helping us to help Gastón.
Thank you for all that you do for me to help me serve a mission-- for helping to pay for it (ok, for paying for basically all of it) and for emailing and writing letters to me every week. Thanks for praying for me, because I know you do. Knowing you love me and are praying for my success helps me to want to work harder and not give up in the rough times. I love you and I pray for all of you that you will have the Spirit, not be stressed, be healthy, that you will feel loved, and that you will be able to achieve your goals.
I love you Mom, Dad, Eliza, Elder Clark, Emma, and Danny!
Love,
Hermana Clark
Thursday, August 25, 2011
Friday, August 19, 2011
A Dramatic Week
Dear Family,
Last week was a very dramatic week in Hurlingham.
Exhibit one: Investigators with baptismal dates per day and their dates of baptism:
Mon: 1 (Mariana, 14/8)
Tu: 3 (Mariana 14/8, Pamela and Teresa 28/8)
Wed: 7 (Mariana and Dahiana and Ramona 14/8, Pamela and Teresa 28/8, Graciela 28/8, Gaston 4/9)
Thurs: 4 (Pamela and Teresa 28/8, Graciela 28/8, Gaston 4/9)
Fri: 4 (Pamela and Teresa 28/8, Graciela 28/8, Gaston 4/9)
Sat: 4 (Pamela and Teresa 28/8, Graciela 28/8, Gaston 4/9)
Sun: 2 (Pamela 28/8, Gaston 4/9)
Exhibit two: Visits of elders to our area to have baptismal interviews with Mariana, Dahiana, and Ramona
Tu: Elder Quackenbush (zone leader) and Elder Cerda (my district leader)
Wed: Elder Gutierrez (zone leader) and Elder Steele (district leader of the other district)
Thurs: Elder Gutierrez and Elder Quackenbush
Exhibit three: pesos in coins spent taking the bus
almost 60 pesos
Exhibit four: pesos spent on taxis
about 111 pesos
Exhibit five: minutes left on our cell phone that have to last us until the 23 of the month, minutes we need to confirm lunches (so the Relief Society doesn't chop our heads off) and appointments with investigators and communicate with the bishop
0, yes, zero
Anecdote A: Our ward mission leader was released (i.e. stolen by the Young Men{s presidency) and the Bishop hasn't replaced him yet.
Here are some of the details:
Ramona and Dahiana decided on Wednesday that they wanted to be baptized with Mariana, but by Thursday they had spoken to their uncle and their father, who were both very against their baptism, and only Mariana wanted to be baptized still, and even she was unsure. We talked to Miriam, their mom, who was also freaked out about the family opposition and said she wasn't going to be able to take her daughters to two different churches every Sunday. Then she told us her daughters told her that we were obligating them to be baptized-- something they had never said to our faces. That really hurt because we were trying really hard to help them and had spent substantial time talking about the importance of receiving their own testimonies. We went back the next day with a really inspired lesson plan to help Miriam and her daughters recognize the Spirit, but Miriam got up before the lesson was over and said she had to leave to pick up Mariana from school-- we felt like she was relieved to leave and didn't really want to feel the Spirit. So Mariana didn't get baptized, and she and her family didn't make it to church either. It was discouraging.
But, Hermana Navarro and I are still really happy and excited because we get to have one more transfer together. We prayed a lot that I wouldn't be transferred (even though I've spent 6 months here), because we have some really neat investigators and we work really well together. I know we are going to see more miracles together this transfer and see baptisms too!
We are also happy and excited for our two investigators with baptismal dates: Gaston and Pamela. Pamela (16 years old) keeps having dreams about listening to us teach or going to church and has cautiously decided that those dreams were her answer that the church is true. She loves coming to church and mutual and receiving the lessons. She even invited a friend to mutual her second time going and tried to explain the Book of Mormon to an evangelical friend who believed only in the Bible! She is fantastic! Her sister Teresa (18) had a baptism date too, but it fell through because she didn't come to church. We will keep working with her though. This week we want to try to teach Pamela{s mother and little brother too, and maybe even her dad!
Gaston is the brother of a recent convert in the ward, Seba Sires. He came to church for the second time yesterday. When we went to teach him for the first time on Wednesday with the help of Seba, he told us he feels upset and depressed and wants to change his life. We told him baptism was the way to do that and he accepted a baptismal date! Gaston is really already converted-- he has already had a complete change of heart, he just has to do the grunt work of repenting. He has a lot of, actually all of the Word of Wisdom problems, but he has already started trying to quit, and in every lesson he impresses us with his desire to read the Book of Mormon, do more service for others, and repent.
Despite the disappointment of Mariana's baptism falling through, Sunday was an excellent day! I reached perfection in the banana bread I made for the investigators, and we found out that I GET ONE MORE TRANSFER IN HURLINGHAM!!! We went to Morris (the next train station, the poorer half of our area) to pick up Pamela and on the way stopped by to wake up Gaston and his brother Seba. We expected them to come to the door in PJs, but they were already almost ready! We awarded them slices of banana bread as a reward. We were still early, so we went to look for Celeste and Elvira (my converts!) and it was a good thing too, because their alarm hadn't gone off! We let them eat banana bread anyway. They were thrilled to see us and Elvira shouted to Celeste "Wake up, Cele, the hermanas came to take us to church!" I guess they miss the personal attention they got when they were investigators. They brought Ludmila, Celeste{s darling toddler with them too. We went to get Pamela and then went to church with her and Elvira, Celeste, and Ludmila in the bus. I was so happy to be there with my converts and my investigators! And when we got to church, Evelyn (most recent convert) was there too! Evelyn's family hadn't been bringing her and Celeste was missing church because of work (she got up the guts to quit this week) and Elvira had missed a couple of weeks because of family visits and losing her roof to a freak storm (forgot to write about that) so it was the first time that all three of my converts were in church together! I was so happy! And seeing Gaston sit with Celeste and hold Ludmila, who was sleeping, was very touching.
Well, I'm super out of time as usual. A couple requests: please send me Ben's emails, because I have no idea how his first week went! And, the next time you send me a package, can you send pantyhose? The regular kind, not the make you look skinny kind or the super dark colored ones. I started wearing them again because it is cold, but now they all have holes. And yes, pantyhose exist here too, but the sensual photos of women's legs that are always on the packaging in the US are downright pornographic here in Argentina and my inner-feminist wouldn't let me buy any. Ok, now I'm really out of time.
I hope you are not heartbreakingly lonely with just the five of you rattling around in the house. Thank you for your support and emails.
Love,
Ellis
Last week was a very dramatic week in Hurlingham.
Exhibit one: Investigators with baptismal dates per day and their dates of baptism:
Mon: 1 (Mariana, 14/8)
Tu: 3 (Mariana 14/8, Pamela and Teresa 28/8)
Wed: 7 (Mariana and Dahiana and Ramona 14/8, Pamela and Teresa 28/8, Graciela 28/8, Gaston 4/9)
Thurs: 4 (Pamela and Teresa 28/8, Graciela 28/8, Gaston 4/9)
Fri: 4 (Pamela and Teresa 28/8, Graciela 28/8, Gaston 4/9)
Sat: 4 (Pamela and Teresa 28/8, Graciela 28/8, Gaston 4/9)
Sun: 2 (Pamela 28/8, Gaston 4/9)
Exhibit two: Visits of elders to our area to have baptismal interviews with Mariana, Dahiana, and Ramona
Tu: Elder Quackenbush (zone leader) and Elder Cerda (my district leader)
Wed: Elder Gutierrez (zone leader) and Elder Steele (district leader of the other district)
Thurs: Elder Gutierrez and Elder Quackenbush
Exhibit three: pesos in coins spent taking the bus
almost 60 pesos
Exhibit four: pesos spent on taxis
about 111 pesos
Exhibit five: minutes left on our cell phone that have to last us until the 23 of the month, minutes we need to confirm lunches (so the Relief Society doesn't chop our heads off) and appointments with investigators and communicate with the bishop
0, yes, zero
Anecdote A: Our ward mission leader was released (i.e. stolen by the Young Men{s presidency) and the Bishop hasn't replaced him yet.
Here are some of the details:
Ramona and Dahiana decided on Wednesday that they wanted to be baptized with Mariana, but by Thursday they had spoken to their uncle and their father, who were both very against their baptism, and only Mariana wanted to be baptized still, and even she was unsure. We talked to Miriam, their mom, who was also freaked out about the family opposition and said she wasn't going to be able to take her daughters to two different churches every Sunday. Then she told us her daughters told her that we were obligating them to be baptized-- something they had never said to our faces. That really hurt because we were trying really hard to help them and had spent substantial time talking about the importance of receiving their own testimonies. We went back the next day with a really inspired lesson plan to help Miriam and her daughters recognize the Spirit, but Miriam got up before the lesson was over and said she had to leave to pick up Mariana from school-- we felt like she was relieved to leave and didn't really want to feel the Spirit. So Mariana didn't get baptized, and she and her family didn't make it to church either. It was discouraging.
But, Hermana Navarro and I are still really happy and excited because we get to have one more transfer together. We prayed a lot that I wouldn't be transferred (even though I've spent 6 months here), because we have some really neat investigators and we work really well together. I know we are going to see more miracles together this transfer and see baptisms too!
We are also happy and excited for our two investigators with baptismal dates: Gaston and Pamela. Pamela (16 years old) keeps having dreams about listening to us teach or going to church and has cautiously decided that those dreams were her answer that the church is true. She loves coming to church and mutual and receiving the lessons. She even invited a friend to mutual her second time going and tried to explain the Book of Mormon to an evangelical friend who believed only in the Bible! She is fantastic! Her sister Teresa (18) had a baptism date too, but it fell through because she didn't come to church. We will keep working with her though. This week we want to try to teach Pamela{s mother and little brother too, and maybe even her dad!
Gaston is the brother of a recent convert in the ward, Seba Sires. He came to church for the second time yesterday. When we went to teach him for the first time on Wednesday with the help of Seba, he told us he feels upset and depressed and wants to change his life. We told him baptism was the way to do that and he accepted a baptismal date! Gaston is really already converted-- he has already had a complete change of heart, he just has to do the grunt work of repenting. He has a lot of, actually all of the Word of Wisdom problems, but he has already started trying to quit, and in every lesson he impresses us with his desire to read the Book of Mormon, do more service for others, and repent.
Despite the disappointment of Mariana's baptism falling through, Sunday was an excellent day! I reached perfection in the banana bread I made for the investigators, and we found out that I GET ONE MORE TRANSFER IN HURLINGHAM!!! We went to Morris (the next train station, the poorer half of our area) to pick up Pamela and on the way stopped by to wake up Gaston and his brother Seba. We expected them to come to the door in PJs, but they were already almost ready! We awarded them slices of banana bread as a reward. We were still early, so we went to look for Celeste and Elvira (my converts!) and it was a good thing too, because their alarm hadn't gone off! We let them eat banana bread anyway. They were thrilled to see us and Elvira shouted to Celeste "Wake up, Cele, the hermanas came to take us to church!" I guess they miss the personal attention they got when they were investigators. They brought Ludmila, Celeste{s darling toddler with them too. We went to get Pamela and then went to church with her and Elvira, Celeste, and Ludmila in the bus. I was so happy to be there with my converts and my investigators! And when we got to church, Evelyn (most recent convert) was there too! Evelyn's family hadn't been bringing her and Celeste was missing church because of work (she got up the guts to quit this week) and Elvira had missed a couple of weeks because of family visits and losing her roof to a freak storm (forgot to write about that) so it was the first time that all three of my converts were in church together! I was so happy! And seeing Gaston sit with Celeste and hold Ludmila, who was sleeping, was very touching.
Well, I'm super out of time as usual. A couple requests: please send me Ben's emails, because I have no idea how his first week went! And, the next time you send me a package, can you send pantyhose? The regular kind, not the make you look skinny kind or the super dark colored ones. I started wearing them again because it is cold, but now they all have holes. And yes, pantyhose exist here too, but the sensual photos of women's legs that are always on the packaging in the US are downright pornographic here in Argentina and my inner-feminist wouldn't let me buy any. Ok, now I'm really out of time.
I hope you are not heartbreakingly lonely with just the five of you rattling around in the house. Thank you for your support and emails.
Love,
Ellis
Monday, August 8, 2011
A Week of Blessings
Dear Family,
I think often of you, especially of Ben, and I hope you are all well and adjusting easily to the big changes that are coming when Ben leaves. Here is what I did last week:
Monday: made tacos in the apartment with Hna Navarro-- despite the absence of jalapeño juice, they were yummy. Then we had a great Family Home Evening with the Herreras, an active family in our ward (the ones who made me birthday cake), about missionary work. Best quote of the week is awarded to Micaela (six years old.) Me: What are some of the things Jesus did to help people? Micaela: He helped poor people who couldn´t take baths be clean again. (see the healing the leper scene in Finding Faith in Christ when the little leprous grandpa gets healed and says"I´m clean!")
Tuesday: had divisions with Hna Salazar, who has just one more transfer left-- we found some new investigators and she gave me some good advice: "Don´t be sad about what you aren´t doing well. Be happy for all the things you are doing well."
Wednesday: Left the keys in the gate, traveled all the way to Merlo to reunite with Hna Navarro (it was really good to see my companion again!) and didn´t realize I didn´t have the keys until we arrived at the gate again. We searched the ground and the trash (eww) before concluding that I had indeed left the keys in the gate. Fortunately, our neighbor had found them and we were able to get them back and enter the apartment-- phew! How could I be so scatterbrained?
Thursday: We went to pick up a lunch the Hna Hornos made for us to eat in the apartment. As I thought about our plans to visit the Tejedas, a dirt-poor family in our ward, I thought "Maybe they need our lunch." At first I thought I was nuts, but just in case I called Hna Tejeda and asked how she was doing. She said lousy, so I asked what she needed. She said her husband needed work and the family needed food. So I told her we were coming right away. Hna Navarro said she had also felt that we should give the Tejedas our lunch. Wow! I assumed they had food, just not very much, and that our lunch would be more of a comfort gift than a real help. But when we arrived and gave them our lunch, Hna Tejeda said they had absolutely no food, not even enough for dinner that night. As soon as we left we called the RS president, who was able to bring them more food that night. This was a really cool experience, because Heavenly Father knew that the Tejeda family needed our lunch, even though I didn´t, and he let us be instruments to work a miracle for them. Moral of the story: always listen to the Spirit!
We also contacted a reference from the Saravia family and found Teresa and Pamela, who really liked lesson one and agreed to pray! Pamela came to mutual that same night and loved it!
Friday: We taught SIX LESSONS IN ONE DAY! A record for our companionship, and very welcome because we have had embarrassingly low numbers all transfer long. Also, we taught the Law of Chastity to Marta, and she accepted the principle and seemed open to the idea of talking to her boyfriend of ten years about marriage.
Saturday: We taught SEVEN LESSONS, including a really good lesson to Marta and her daughter Julieta about obedience. Julieta said she wants to come to church too! We also taught Miriam and her daughters Dahiana, Mariana, and Ramona. Dahiana and Mariana accepted baptismal dates last week, but Dahiana has doubts now because the three of them are preparing to take communion in the Catholic church. We told them it was their decision and that they should pray about it, but tried to explain that they won´t be able to have the same blessings in the Catholic church. Mariana said she is sure she wants to get baptized, but Dahiana and Ramona still weren´t sure after the lesson. We really hope they decide to get baptized with their sister.
We also taught Olga, who has been progressing pretty slowly because she is too busy to have a lesson more than once a week. I challenged her to be baptized, but she says she doesn´t know enough yet and she will tell us when she is ready and doesn´t want the pressure of a baptismal date. She still wants to listen to us and come to church, which made me feel good, but I was upset that I´ve taught her for a full month but haeen´t been able to help her understand that a testimony isn´t about knowledge of facts, it´s about getting an answer from the Spirit. I felt like my teaching had sort of failed. But as we returned to the apartment, at exactly 9:28, I saw a man with a mohawk and his young son waiting for the bus. We walked past, but I felt like we should go back to talk to them, even though we were supposed to be inside at 9:30. We returned to talk to the man, whose name was Cristian. He said he´d already met elders and had a book of Mormon. He said he has a lot of respect and gratitude for missionaries and what we do, because we don´t discriminate. He said that most people would not have turned back to talk to him and he thanked us for helping him to feel included. He told us to never get discouraged because what we are doing makes a difference. I felt like Heavenly Father was sending me a message through Cristian-- not to be discouraged about my teaching and to know that I really am helping people. Cristian doesn´t live in our area, but we wrote down his address so we can send the elders to him again.
Sunday: We lost some of our little sheep on the way to the pasture, but Ramona, Mariana, Olga, and Pamela came to church and really loved it. And Seba Sires´ (recent convert) non member brother came to church and agreed to let us visit him. So we had 5 investigators again! And Pamela is already thinking seriously about baptism! Life is good in Hurlingham!
This week the big struggle will be helping Mariana (11) get ready to be baptized and trying to help her mom support her by taking her to church every sunday and trying to help her sisters get baptized too. We will be busy, but very happy.
I love you all and hope you are as busy and happy as I am!
I think often of you, especially of Ben, and I hope you are all well and adjusting easily to the big changes that are coming when Ben leaves. Here is what I did last week:
Monday: made tacos in the apartment with Hna Navarro-- despite the absence of jalapeño juice, they were yummy. Then we had a great Family Home Evening with the Herreras, an active family in our ward (the ones who made me birthday cake), about missionary work. Best quote of the week is awarded to Micaela (six years old.) Me: What are some of the things Jesus did to help people? Micaela: He helped poor people who couldn´t take baths be clean again. (see the healing the leper scene in Finding Faith in Christ when the little leprous grandpa gets healed and says"I´m clean!")
Tuesday: had divisions with Hna Salazar, who has just one more transfer left-- we found some new investigators and she gave me some good advice: "Don´t be sad about what you aren´t doing well. Be happy for all the things you are doing well."
Wednesday: Left the keys in the gate, traveled all the way to Merlo to reunite with Hna Navarro (it was really good to see my companion again!) and didn´t realize I didn´t have the keys until we arrived at the gate again. We searched the ground and the trash (eww) before concluding that I had indeed left the keys in the gate. Fortunately, our neighbor had found them and we were able to get them back and enter the apartment-- phew! How could I be so scatterbrained?
Thursday: We went to pick up a lunch the Hna Hornos made for us to eat in the apartment. As I thought about our plans to visit the Tejedas, a dirt-poor family in our ward, I thought "Maybe they need our lunch." At first I thought I was nuts, but just in case I called Hna Tejeda and asked how she was doing. She said lousy, so I asked what she needed. She said her husband needed work and the family needed food. So I told her we were coming right away. Hna Navarro said she had also felt that we should give the Tejedas our lunch. Wow! I assumed they had food, just not very much, and that our lunch would be more of a comfort gift than a real help. But when we arrived and gave them our lunch, Hna Tejeda said they had absolutely no food, not even enough for dinner that night. As soon as we left we called the RS president, who was able to bring them more food that night. This was a really cool experience, because Heavenly Father knew that the Tejeda family needed our lunch, even though I didn´t, and he let us be instruments to work a miracle for them. Moral of the story: always listen to the Spirit!
We also contacted a reference from the Saravia family and found Teresa and Pamela, who really liked lesson one and agreed to pray! Pamela came to mutual that same night and loved it!
Friday: We taught SIX LESSONS IN ONE DAY! A record for our companionship, and very welcome because we have had embarrassingly low numbers all transfer long. Also, we taught the Law of Chastity to Marta, and she accepted the principle and seemed open to the idea of talking to her boyfriend of ten years about marriage.
Saturday: We taught SEVEN LESSONS, including a really good lesson to Marta and her daughter Julieta about obedience. Julieta said she wants to come to church too! We also taught Miriam and her daughters Dahiana, Mariana, and Ramona. Dahiana and Mariana accepted baptismal dates last week, but Dahiana has doubts now because the three of them are preparing to take communion in the Catholic church. We told them it was their decision and that they should pray about it, but tried to explain that they won´t be able to have the same blessings in the Catholic church. Mariana said she is sure she wants to get baptized, but Dahiana and Ramona still weren´t sure after the lesson. We really hope they decide to get baptized with their sister.
We also taught Olga, who has been progressing pretty slowly because she is too busy to have a lesson more than once a week. I challenged her to be baptized, but she says she doesn´t know enough yet and she will tell us when she is ready and doesn´t want the pressure of a baptismal date. She still wants to listen to us and come to church, which made me feel good, but I was upset that I´ve taught her for a full month but haeen´t been able to help her understand that a testimony isn´t about knowledge of facts, it´s about getting an answer from the Spirit. I felt like my teaching had sort of failed. But as we returned to the apartment, at exactly 9:28, I saw a man with a mohawk and his young son waiting for the bus. We walked past, but I felt like we should go back to talk to them, even though we were supposed to be inside at 9:30. We returned to talk to the man, whose name was Cristian. He said he´d already met elders and had a book of Mormon. He said he has a lot of respect and gratitude for missionaries and what we do, because we don´t discriminate. He said that most people would not have turned back to talk to him and he thanked us for helping him to feel included. He told us to never get discouraged because what we are doing makes a difference. I felt like Heavenly Father was sending me a message through Cristian-- not to be discouraged about my teaching and to know that I really am helping people. Cristian doesn´t live in our area, but we wrote down his address so we can send the elders to him again.
Sunday: We lost some of our little sheep on the way to the pasture, but Ramona, Mariana, Olga, and Pamela came to church and really loved it. And Seba Sires´ (recent convert) non member brother came to church and agreed to let us visit him. So we had 5 investigators again! And Pamela is already thinking seriously about baptism! Life is good in Hurlingham!
This week the big struggle will be helping Mariana (11) get ready to be baptized and trying to help her mom support her by taking her to church every sunday and trying to help her sisters get baptized too. We will be busy, but very happy.
I love you all and hope you are as busy and happy as I am!
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
Viva Hurlingham!
The highlight of this week was a lesson we taught to Marta, Miriam, and Miriam´s daughters Dahiana, Ramona, and Mariana. We taught the Restoration and I felt impressed to use lots of examples and pictures to help them understand. We taught the importance of baptism, then asked them if they had questions. Mariana asked what a person had to wear to be baptized! We answered a few more questions, but Dahiana still hadn´t asked anything and looked like she had a question. She was too shy to speak up right away, but we kept waiting and listening and then she burst out "When can I be baptized?" The Spirit was really strong in that moment. She and her sister Mariana accepted the challenge to be baptized in three weeks, on August 13. Ramona accepted the challenge to pray to decide if she wants to get baptized too!
On Sunday Dahiana, Mariana, and Ramona came to church. Ramona said she prayed and didn´t get an answer, but that she wants to keep praying. She really liked church. I feel so lucky to be able to teach those three girls. My worry is that they won´t be able to stay active without their mom. We´re going to keep working with Marta and Miriam so that they can get baptized too and so that the girls will have plenty of support. They slept in and didn´t come to church, but they really like when we teach them.
The sister we prayed with, Teresa, had to have her toe amputated afterall. I was worried that she would be angry and depressed, but she said she felt at peace about the operation and that now she feels much better. She trusts that God let happen what was best for her and knows that he is looking out for her. Her faith is a real example to me.
Hna. Navarro and I are really worried that our future converts won´t stay active because there isn´t much fellowshipping in the ward and half the recent converts are inactive, so we are planning efforts to help the members participate in missionary work and fellowship each other more. Tonight we are teaching a family home evening to an active family about how to share the gospel with their friends through service. We also want to have a young singles FHE with some of the recent converts and inactive members who are young single adults. If the ward is stronger, more people will get baptized and stay active.
Hna. Navarro are still struggling a little in our efforts to stick to the schedule, but we are improving and will keep trying. One of our strong points is that we can talk really openly about the things we want to improve and we are really united. I love our companionship! I really hope President Carter gives me one more transfer here.
Yesterday we had to go to the capital so Hna Navarro could vote in the mandatory elections! We arrived 5 minutes before the polls closed-- stressful! It was kind of fun because we got to take two trains and the subway, which I had never taken in Argentina, but mostly it was just boring--4 and a half hours of traveling standing up just to put a paper in a box.
Sorry this letter is so short, I´m out of time. I´m glad you all had a good time with the extended fam and that Dad and the YM got back safely-- what an adventure! Thinking of those tamales made my mouth water-- I really miss Mexican food. I love you! Make sure Ben reads his email cause I sent him one. I´m looking forward to reading all your talks.
Love,
Hermana Clark
On Sunday Dahiana, Mariana, and Ramona came to church. Ramona said she prayed and didn´t get an answer, but that she wants to keep praying. She really liked church. I feel so lucky to be able to teach those three girls. My worry is that they won´t be able to stay active without their mom. We´re going to keep working with Marta and Miriam so that they can get baptized too and so that the girls will have plenty of support. They slept in and didn´t come to church, but they really like when we teach them.
The sister we prayed with, Teresa, had to have her toe amputated afterall. I was worried that she would be angry and depressed, but she said she felt at peace about the operation and that now she feels much better. She trusts that God let happen what was best for her and knows that he is looking out for her. Her faith is a real example to me.
Hna. Navarro and I are really worried that our future converts won´t stay active because there isn´t much fellowshipping in the ward and half the recent converts are inactive, so we are planning efforts to help the members participate in missionary work and fellowship each other more. Tonight we are teaching a family home evening to an active family about how to share the gospel with their friends through service. We also want to have a young singles FHE with some of the recent converts and inactive members who are young single adults. If the ward is stronger, more people will get baptized and stay active.
Hna. Navarro are still struggling a little in our efforts to stick to the schedule, but we are improving and will keep trying. One of our strong points is that we can talk really openly about the things we want to improve and we are really united. I love our companionship! I really hope President Carter gives me one more transfer here.
Yesterday we had to go to the capital so Hna Navarro could vote in the mandatory elections! We arrived 5 minutes before the polls closed-- stressful! It was kind of fun because we got to take two trains and the subway, which I had never taken in Argentina, but mostly it was just boring--4 and a half hours of traveling standing up just to put a paper in a box.
Sorry this letter is so short, I´m out of time. I´m glad you all had a good time with the extended fam and that Dad and the YM got back safely-- what an adventure! Thinking of those tamales made my mouth water-- I really miss Mexican food. I love you! Make sure Ben reads his email cause I sent him one. I´m looking forward to reading all your talks.
Love,
Hermana Clark
Monday, August 1, 2011
Hey there, July 25, 2011
Last week Hna Navarro and I improved a lot in a lot of things. We´ve been working to be more obedient to the mission schedule. We started jogging in the mornings so we can wake up better. And now we start our personal study by singing a hymn together, so we are motivated to be ready to start studying on time. We´re committed to continue improving and supporting each other to be more obedient. We taught more lessons and found more new investigators too. I´m excited to see the changes we can make this week.
The biggest miracle of our week was that Marta, Miriam, Miriam´s daughters Daiana and Mariana, and Olga, came to sacrament meeting. On Saturday Marta and Miriam agreed to let us pick them up for church. It helped that Marta had already told Miriam that she felt peace during our lesson with her last week. I think they also agreed to come because we tried hard to resolve their doubts and questions instead of sticking to what we had planned to teach. That same day we taught Olga and she said she felt well enough (she´s had a cold) to come to sacrament meeting.
On Sunday we picked up Marta, Miriam, Daiana and Mariana and were able to arrive just a few minutes late to the first hour of meetings. It was really inspiring to see Marta and Miriam exercise their faith by coming to church. Olga showed up for sacrament meeting. I felt so happy to see so many of my investigators where the Lord wanted them to be-- in the chapel. It´s been over 5 months since I´ve seen 5 investigators in sacrament meeting! I want to work hard so that they can come to church again and so that more of our investigators can come to church!
Another big miracle of the week was visiting and praying for Hna Teresa, a convert of 3 years. She hasn´t been able to come to church for a while because she is in a wheel chair because she lost a leg because of her diabetes and she has an ulcer on one of the toes of her remaining foot. The doctors said her toe would have to be amputated. But she received a blessing for the sick from the second counselor and the next day the doctor said they would wait the weekend to operate because her toe was improving. When we went to visit her, we were impressed by her faith that she wouldn´t need the operation, in spite of the pain she was still in. I said a prayer with her that the pain would be less, that her toe would heal, and that she could sleep the whole night. I remember being surprised at the confidence I felt that the prayer would be answered. The next day when we stopped by to visit Hna Teresa said the pain was gone-- her foot just stings and itches, which is a sign that it´s healing. She said that she had slept without being woken by the pain! She will find out from the doctor today if she needs to have the toe amputated, but we´re all hoping for the best. I know that Heavenly Father answers our prayers when we pray with faith.
Love,Ellis
The biggest miracle of our week was that Marta, Miriam, Miriam´s daughters Daiana and Mariana, and Olga, came to sacrament meeting. On Saturday Marta and Miriam agreed to let us pick them up for church. It helped that Marta had already told Miriam that she felt peace during our lesson with her last week. I think they also agreed to come because we tried hard to resolve their doubts and questions instead of sticking to what we had planned to teach. That same day we taught Olga and she said she felt well enough (she´s had a cold) to come to sacrament meeting.
On Sunday we picked up Marta, Miriam, Daiana and Mariana and were able to arrive just a few minutes late to the first hour of meetings. It was really inspiring to see Marta and Miriam exercise their faith by coming to church. Olga showed up for sacrament meeting. I felt so happy to see so many of my investigators where the Lord wanted them to be-- in the chapel. It´s been over 5 months since I´ve seen 5 investigators in sacrament meeting! I want to work hard so that they can come to church again and so that more of our investigators can come to church!
Another big miracle of the week was visiting and praying for Hna Teresa, a convert of 3 years. She hasn´t been able to come to church for a while because she is in a wheel chair because she lost a leg because of her diabetes and she has an ulcer on one of the toes of her remaining foot. The doctors said her toe would have to be amputated. But she received a blessing for the sick from the second counselor and the next day the doctor said they would wait the weekend to operate because her toe was improving. When we went to visit her, we were impressed by her faith that she wouldn´t need the operation, in spite of the pain she was still in. I said a prayer with her that the pain would be less, that her toe would heal, and that she could sleep the whole night. I remember being surprised at the confidence I felt that the prayer would be answered. The next day when we stopped by to visit Hna Teresa said the pain was gone-- her foot just stings and itches, which is a sign that it´s healing. She said that she had slept without being woken by the pain! She will find out from the doctor today if she needs to have the toe amputated, but we´re all hoping for the best. I know that Heavenly Father answers our prayers when we pray with faith.
Love,Ellis
1 year in the mission, July 18, 2011
Last week was an extra spiritual week for me, and an important one, because I passed my one year mark in the mission.
Hermana Navarro is a wonderful companion. We´re able to talk really openly and we´ve become very good friends in the last two weeks. She always tells me about all the good things she sees in my teaching. She really loves people and has a strong desire to share the gospel. I´m really lucky to be serving with her. This week, our companionship studies have been really great. We´ve shared a lot of insights and learned a lot together.
The two themes of my (our) week have been improving in diligence and charity. I realized that diligence is more than just consistently working hard, it´s also consistently trying to be efficient and effective. The second part kills me. I have a lot of blocks, as Katie would say, against being efficient, decisive, organized, etc. But I´ve been realizing in the last few weeks lots of things I can do to be more efficient and I´m slowly starting to apply them. I have a LONG way to go, but I feel positive about it.
But a stronger focus on charity has defined this week for me. On Tuesday night I prayed to have more charity for our investigators. When I woke up Wednesday morning I felt during my personal prayer a real increase in my love for the investigators, especially for one investigator that I was having trouble relating to. I shared what I felt with Hna. Navarro, and we had some really neat insights together about how important charity is in missionary work. The rest of the week, as I tried to feel and express love for all the people we found and taught, I saw results. The investigators and less active members and our street contacts responded better and understood better and were more willing to accept commitments. Hna. Navarro and I talked about it during our personal study and talked about how Christ taught with love, not by trying to convince people by force of argument or by “dropping the cane” on people´s faults. We read Section 121 together and came to the conclusion that the advice about not trying to recognize unrighteous dominion with the priesthood also applies to us—the power of our teaching won´t come from our authority as set apart missionaries, but from persuasion, gentleness, and love.
I saw this principle in action with Marta, a reference from another investigator that we contacted on Thursday (my 1 year mark!). She was standing outside her house listening to loud music and didn´t look very approachable. But we went up to talk to her anyway with Hna. Gauna, a sister from the ward who was accompanying us. At first she didn´t want to hear anything. She told us that she had lost two children and that she had been to lots of different churches but that none of them had touched her heart. We could have given up right then, but I decided that I would try to show her more charity. I told her that I knew that Heavenly Father loved her and wanted her to be happy and that he had a plan to help her do that. Her expression changed and she accepted the Plan of Salvation pamphlet we gave her. We told her we would come by again to visit her and she said that was ok!
The next day we went to visit Marta again. I was nervous, but I tried my best to be friendly and keep showing love for her. When we sat down to teach, the Spirit took over completely. We started explaining to her the Plan of Salvation and eternal families. I started to explain to her how Christ overcame sin and death for us, which would otherwise separate us from Heavenly Father and our families. I opened my Book of Mormon and found a scripture in Alma 12 about resurrection that I hadn´t read for weeks or months and hadn´t understood particularly well. I began to read it aloud for Marta and as I spoke to explain it the Spirit helped me understand and explain with a clarity that surprised me. I felt like I was teaching myself—as the words came out of my mouth I simultaneously understood the doctrine I was teaching—that sin causes death and that Christ´s sinless life gave him the power to rise from the dead and allow us to be resurrected too. I immediately, without thinking almost, opened to Alma 7 and read right through from the part about Christ suffering our pains to the part that says he will erase our transgressions and Alma´s invitation to be baptized unto repentance. I challenged Marta right then and there to be baptized so she could receive a remission of her sins and be with her children again after this life. Marta paused, then said she would need to think about it and agreed to pray to find out if the church was true. I told her I was so sure that God would tell her yes that I wanted to set a goal for her baptism. Marta accepted the goal of being baptized on the 30th if she receives an answer. We invited her to offer the closing prayer, but instead of praying out loud, she began to pray silently. At first we were uncomfortable, but then we started to pray silently too. About 15 minutes later, Marta finished her prayer. She had a look of peace on her face and told us she felt “bien”. That lesson was an experience I will never forget. I´ve never felt the Spirit so strongly.
There´s one more experience I´d like to share with you about last week. The same afternoon we taught Marta, but before the lesson, we saw a teenage boy sitting on the ground at the bus stop. I felt like we should go talk to him. I told him we had a message to share and then told him that his Heavenly Father had a plan to help him achieve success in his life and reach his potential. We learned that the boy´s name was Nico. He said he was 18 and he said he didn´t really believe in anything, and his family didn´t either. He didn´t want us to come visit him because his family wouldn´t be interested. I was trying to think about how to explain to him how the gospel could help him personally, and I felt strongly to talk to him about young men in the church. It didn´t seem to have anything to do with anything. But I listened and told him that there were young men in the church doing important things with their lives. I told him “My brother, who is 19, just a little older than you, is going to serve a mission like I´m doing. He´s going to Brazil. And it´s going to be difficult because he will be in a foreign country and doesn´t speak Portuguese yet, but I know he can do it because God will be helping him. I know you can do important and difficult things in your life too with God´s help.” I almost challenged him right then and there to serve a mission, but I chickened out. And Nico told us that he has friends who have served missions in the church—he already knew what a mission was! And then Hna. Navarro testified to him about how serving missions and going to church helped her brothers. It was incredible. I realized that Heavenly Father really wanted Nico to serve a mission, and he wasn´t even a member yet. I had the very strong impression that Nico needs to serve a mission. We left him a pamphlet with the church´s address. I really hope he comes someday, or that we can find him again and teach him.
Love,
Ellis
Hermana Navarro is a wonderful companion. We´re able to talk really openly and we´ve become very good friends in the last two weeks. She always tells me about all the good things she sees in my teaching. She really loves people and has a strong desire to share the gospel. I´m really lucky to be serving with her. This week, our companionship studies have been really great. We´ve shared a lot of insights and learned a lot together.
The two themes of my (our) week have been improving in diligence and charity. I realized that diligence is more than just consistently working hard, it´s also consistently trying to be efficient and effective. The second part kills me. I have a lot of blocks, as Katie would say, against being efficient, decisive, organized, etc. But I´ve been realizing in the last few weeks lots of things I can do to be more efficient and I´m slowly starting to apply them. I have a LONG way to go, but I feel positive about it.
But a stronger focus on charity has defined this week for me. On Tuesday night I prayed to have more charity for our investigators. When I woke up Wednesday morning I felt during my personal prayer a real increase in my love for the investigators, especially for one investigator that I was having trouble relating to. I shared what I felt with Hna. Navarro, and we had some really neat insights together about how important charity is in missionary work. The rest of the week, as I tried to feel and express love for all the people we found and taught, I saw results. The investigators and less active members and our street contacts responded better and understood better and were more willing to accept commitments. Hna. Navarro and I talked about it during our personal study and talked about how Christ taught with love, not by trying to convince people by force of argument or by “dropping the cane” on people´s faults. We read Section 121 together and came to the conclusion that the advice about not trying to recognize unrighteous dominion with the priesthood also applies to us—the power of our teaching won´t come from our authority as set apart missionaries, but from persuasion, gentleness, and love.
I saw this principle in action with Marta, a reference from another investigator that we contacted on Thursday (my 1 year mark!). She was standing outside her house listening to loud music and didn´t look very approachable. But we went up to talk to her anyway with Hna. Gauna, a sister from the ward who was accompanying us. At first she didn´t want to hear anything. She told us that she had lost two children and that she had been to lots of different churches but that none of them had touched her heart. We could have given up right then, but I decided that I would try to show her more charity. I told her that I knew that Heavenly Father loved her and wanted her to be happy and that he had a plan to help her do that. Her expression changed and she accepted the Plan of Salvation pamphlet we gave her. We told her we would come by again to visit her and she said that was ok!
The next day we went to visit Marta again. I was nervous, but I tried my best to be friendly and keep showing love for her. When we sat down to teach, the Spirit took over completely. We started explaining to her the Plan of Salvation and eternal families. I started to explain to her how Christ overcame sin and death for us, which would otherwise separate us from Heavenly Father and our families. I opened my Book of Mormon and found a scripture in Alma 12 about resurrection that I hadn´t read for weeks or months and hadn´t understood particularly well. I began to read it aloud for Marta and as I spoke to explain it the Spirit helped me understand and explain with a clarity that surprised me. I felt like I was teaching myself—as the words came out of my mouth I simultaneously understood the doctrine I was teaching—that sin causes death and that Christ´s sinless life gave him the power to rise from the dead and allow us to be resurrected too. I immediately, without thinking almost, opened to Alma 7 and read right through from the part about Christ suffering our pains to the part that says he will erase our transgressions and Alma´s invitation to be baptized unto repentance. I challenged Marta right then and there to be baptized so she could receive a remission of her sins and be with her children again after this life. Marta paused, then said she would need to think about it and agreed to pray to find out if the church was true. I told her I was so sure that God would tell her yes that I wanted to set a goal for her baptism. Marta accepted the goal of being baptized on the 30th if she receives an answer. We invited her to offer the closing prayer, but instead of praying out loud, she began to pray silently. At first we were uncomfortable, but then we started to pray silently too. About 15 minutes later, Marta finished her prayer. She had a look of peace on her face and told us she felt “bien”. That lesson was an experience I will never forget. I´ve never felt the Spirit so strongly.
There´s one more experience I´d like to share with you about last week. The same afternoon we taught Marta, but before the lesson, we saw a teenage boy sitting on the ground at the bus stop. I felt like we should go talk to him. I told him we had a message to share and then told him that his Heavenly Father had a plan to help him achieve success in his life and reach his potential. We learned that the boy´s name was Nico. He said he was 18 and he said he didn´t really believe in anything, and his family didn´t either. He didn´t want us to come visit him because his family wouldn´t be interested. I was trying to think about how to explain to him how the gospel could help him personally, and I felt strongly to talk to him about young men in the church. It didn´t seem to have anything to do with anything. But I listened and told him that there were young men in the church doing important things with their lives. I told him “My brother, who is 19, just a little older than you, is going to serve a mission like I´m doing. He´s going to Brazil. And it´s going to be difficult because he will be in a foreign country and doesn´t speak Portuguese yet, but I know he can do it because God will be helping him. I know you can do important and difficult things in your life too with God´s help.” I almost challenged him right then and there to serve a mission, but I chickened out. And Nico told us that he has friends who have served missions in the church—he already knew what a mission was! And then Hna. Navarro testified to him about how serving missions and going to church helped her brothers. It was incredible. I realized that Heavenly Father really wanted Nico to serve a mission, and he wasn´t even a member yet. I had the very strong impression that Nico needs to serve a mission. We left him a pamphlet with the church´s address. I really hope he comes someday, or that we can find him again and teach him.
Love,
Ellis
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